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NO RIGHT OR WRONG CHOICE - Elvira Jordan




NO RIGHT OR WRONG CHOICE - Elvira Jordan

A lot of people will not agree with this statement but I will still tell…

Based on personal reasons and past experiences, I am not big on making grand choices… I mean, when you have a big decision to make and you have to be careful what you choose or else you will make a mistake…. Bleeeeh! Not for me. 🤪

It is true that our choices determine the outcome of our lives, but this truth is subjective because even our choices do not count at all when life wants to happen.

That doesn’t mean we throw our power of choosing to the wind and just live life as it goes. It’s about making choices without letting those choices be a source of pressure to your mental and emotional state.

I have had friends in situations where their inability to decide on what they want to choose would make them more miserable than the outcome of their choices. Daily eaten up by the probability of being right or wrong when life could be JUST A LEAP OF FATE.

The way I see life, it’s not about the choices I make or how well I choose. It’s about just doing what resonates with me and savouring the outcome. 

By doing what resonates with me, I try as much as possible to be in tune with myself, to hear my own thoughts and intuition, rather than being pressured by the choices in front of me.

I don’t choose based on the illusion of Right and Wrong. Hanging my life around these two makes life so mundane and boring. When I am not Ai?🤖 

I have seen situations where you make a choice that seemed “Right” to all including yourself at the beginning, and that Right turned out wrong, bitter and hurtful at the end.

I have also seen situations where a choice that didn’t make sense at first had a very bright and beautiful in between or a bright ending.

It’s not about the decision you make but about what life holds for you. For you to understand what life holds for YOU, you have to be able to shut the world out and be in alignment with your inner self.

Rather than letting the fear of a “Wrong Decision” eat me up, I am more interested in choosing something that will soothe my spirit, elevate my soul and help me experience life more because YES! Life is an experience.

I would rather choose what excites my inner being… what my spirit needs and where my soul points me to.

In this state of mind, there are no wrong decisions. It’s either an opportunity to grow, explore or learn some lessons that will be of benefit to me today, tomorrow, sometime in the future or to someone else.

The power of choice gives me a certain kind of confidence and freedom that makes me see life from a “Half full” perspective, rather than the “half empty” view that the weight of choosing places on me.
You can call me a Very Happy FREE THINKER. 

In my life, every day is a good day because any road I choose is always the right path for me, not minding what others think or what is at the end of the road.

I don’t know what SERIOUS decision is weighing you down today, or what kind of anxiety you’re trying to navigate through, because you want to make the right choice.

I want to let you know that in life, no decision is right or wrong, as long as you are in touch with your inner self.

Let go of your fears, the need to control, the need to impress and the need to always be right and just LIVE!

Close your eyes and pick any one. 😊

BIBLE VERSE: Isaiah 30:21 
Whether you turn to the right or to the left, your ears will hear a voice behind you, saying, “This is the way; walk in it.”

PRAYER: Dear Lord, we cast away every burden, and what ever will bring us grief and sadness. We replace negativity with the most joyous and happy experiences that each day has to offer. Amen 🙏🏽

Do have a Blessed Monday and a Successful Week ahead. 
🩵🌼💜🌸🧡🍀❤️🪻💚🍄💛🌹🖤☘️🤍
#ELVIRASPEN 
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